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Hi,
my name is Pallavi. I was 26 years old when I thought it was time to
make my life worth living. I had a condition of pinched nose and it
made me feel awkward. It made me lose my confidence and concentration.
My
situation was worse, since I don't belong to a normal family. But my
friends and internet came to my help! I went through a number of web
sites initially, looking for the secure and simplest solution for
healing my pinched nose. I did approach a few doctors, one of whom
hurriedly told me about inserting a foreign object in my nose to make
the pinch go away and look straighter. Neither the solution nor the
doctor was fully assuring me of the cure. I was taking this decision
and executing it all alone. I had to have full faith in the doctor
under whose hands I was going to operated.
Fortunately,
I found the listing of http://www.aestheticsindia.org on the internet
and took an appointment to visit Dr Ashish Davalbhakta soon.
On
my first visit, Dr Ashish listened to my problem intently and was not
of hurried nature. This put me to ease with him. He explained me in
great detail the anatomy of a nose, what structure of my nose has been
damaged, and how he would restore it. I couldn't help being amazed by
his sincerity, dedication and simplicity. Also he explained at length
the steps involved in operation, duration for healing and follow up
procedure and care there on.
He laid out the total
cost incurred for the entire operation, hospital stay and medicines.
This was an important factor for my decision, since apart from
executing it alone and anonymously, I was funding it entirely too. But
many thanks to Dr. Ashish; he helped me understand its feasibility by
being simple and straightforward. This was just my first meeting with
him, but there I was, totally moved by him and firm now to undergo a
life change by him.
I took some time in deciding
the date of operation, since I was working back then and I needed a
month's leave for recuperation. I was not sure whether and when I would
be granted such a big leave. But fortunately, my leave got approved! I
want to say sorry to Dr. Ashish for giving a short notice about my
decision and suggesting an immediate date of operation on my very
second visit. But inspite of that, he agreed and managed to book the
operation theatre and a bed in Ruby Hospital for me in the next two
days.
Dr Ashish I remember, after a year, on that
day of operation, I was full of guilt and fear for not giving you
complete information. I am sorry for not giving you enough time to even
take my x-rays and examine it. You would have had every right then to
deny me or to not take the responsibility of the outcome of operation.
But instead you saved me with your talent, skill and confidence. I am full of gratitude towards YOU.
The
day of operation arrived. After paying up a deposit amount in Ruby
hospital I was ready for the surgery in the afternoon. I remember, when
I was taken to the Operation theatre, I was asked by the other staff
members whether I had somebody with me, to which I responded - no.
Hearing this, Dr Ashish told me not to worry as he will be with me. I
closed my eyes, having faith in him and don't remember anything else
till I woke up!
But when I did wake up later that
evening, I knew it was for the better. Dr Ashish met me the same night
and explained me that it was a rather difficult procedure than expected
since my nose was too much damaged. But he fixed it the best he could,
which I knew seeing him, he did. That night I was bleeding through my
nose frequently and was having urination often. But my friends and
nurses of Ruby hospital attended to my problem all night. The staff at
Ruby hospital was very attentive and caring.
After
2 days of stay at the hospital, I was ready to leave knowing that when
the bandage comes off my nose after a month, I would feel and look
good. I was explained by Dr Ashish how I was to take care of myself in
the following days and my friends helped me make sure I did take my
care. A few weeks later, I visited Dr. Ashish for removing the stitch
and bandage. I looked in the mirror to what was my nose - it had better
shape than before. Also, I could breathe better as the pinch had gone.
As time went by the overall swelling subsided and it took almost 3-4
months for the swelling on my nose tip to subside fully.
It
has been a year now, and my nose is much straighter and gives me a good
and confident look. Dr Ashish, at a time when all hopes for me were
gone, you were a shining star for me. I had placed my full faith in him
and today I am happy to say that he has not let me down.
Your good work has not only healed me, but given me hope that good exists, even though how rare it might be.
I
believe now, even though in my life I might be walking all alone,
taking the risks and chances I have the capacity to take, facing many
ups and downs, but human beings like you will remind me always of what
humanity means.
I thank you doctor, with all my heart.
Pallavi
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